Kalinda - thanks for sharing your thoughts. You raised some excellent points and I find myself largely in agreement with you.
I actually don't put much of my focus (or thoughts) on glaucoma (in terms of me having an incurrable disease). I fact, I generally follow the same rule you do about speaking of it. (But I don't force myself into awkward denials either, so if I have to discuss my health in terms others can understand, I do.) Isn't that interesting that we both have a similar idea in terms of "the power of words?"
I do put a lot of attention on intraocular pressure, as you know. However, I have proven to myself that elevated intraocular pressure is a temporary situation. In fact, it usually lasts no longer than my thoughts or emotions -- in other words, if my eye pressure is elevated, I take that as feedback that I'm doing something that isn't in tune with my goal to be healthy. I have discovered the things I need to change and, so far, 100% of the time I can quickly bring my intraocular pressure back down to a normal range by changing my thoughts, emotions and activities. (The quickness of the change can be anywhere from seconds to minutes to hours, depending on how far I let myself get out of balance. But even glaucoma medications usually take several hours to reduce eye pressure, so I feel my results are very quick.)
I actually consider my whole experience of glaucoma to be a blessing. I have found that monitoring my intraocular pressure has been an excellent way for me to learn how to live healthier. My entire physiology is benefitting from the things I'm doing now.
I do what I do (monitor my eye pressure) not because I am thinking about a disease, but because I am on a journey of self-discovery and on the path of being healthier in every way. I really enjoy all of it and there is no doubt that I have already become a better person because of this "situation."
I often wonder how instruments such as the Reichert Ocular Response Analyzer or the Pascal Dynamic Contour tonometer could be used outside the field of ophthalmology. I think they might be powerful instruments for researching stress reduction techniques, and they might even have application in athletic performance, brain research and other fields. This is, in fact, how I view a lot of my research -- and my own participation in high-frequency self-tonometry. It's all about better health and self-improvement. Therefore, my thoughts, words and actions are all focused on health and positive things. So maybe I do think and act as if I don't have glaucoma - but on the other hand, I have a new-found dedication to my overall health, so I am much better at taking care of myself than I was in the past and I'm doing things that anyone who wants to improve their health (including glaucoma patients) would benefit by doing. And I certainly follow the recommendations of my doctors (including my glaucoma specialist), but I do so from a state of mind that doesn't feel at all negative. In fact, my last visit to my glaucoma specialist was one of the most fun days I've had in the last six months. It was a total blast and I can't wait to go back! (I'm not just saying this to "think positively" because I don't believe in forced positive thinking. I'm just sharing my true experience without coloring it.)
I assume that you have considered why this website is called "Fit Eyes" instead of some name based on a disease. And my blog is about intraocular pressure, not a disease per se. So, again, we are probably thinking along the same lines in many ways.
In terms of "The Secret", maybe we just have different understandings of what it is saying. To me, "The Secret" isn't saying anything new, and it isn't even necessarily saying the old things any better than they have already been said. But "The Secret" is getting people to talk about and think about all these things again, which I think is good. But if I had too, I could point out a lot of faults with "The Secret." We might even be in agreement about its shortcomings. But those shortcomings of not something I've really put any attention on because I still found that the movie left me with positive things to take away from it.
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