Anonymous: I realize that having glaucoma is not a hopeless plight, and that further and more revolutionary possibilities lie ahead in the treatment of the disease.
Hi. You said a lot of important things in your message. I'm really glad you shared your experiences with us.
Your last statement is, in my mind, possibly the most powerful part of your message. I have personally come to the realization that glaucoma is far from a helpless plight -- it is a true blessing for me. I have become a better person because of glaucoma and the process is still continuing. I'm enjoying the positive changes and my whole life is benefiting.
By the way, simply getting out of a negative emotional state and into a positive one will benefit my eye pressure (and probably any glaucoma patient's eye pressure) dramatically. I've written a lot on this in my eye pressure blog already and I'm going to write a new post about my experiences of the last couple days. I'll post a link here when I do it.
I think Dr. Kondrot is wise to create a sense of light and good feeling in his office. (While I believe it could be shown scientifically that this environment would have a healing effect on glaucoma patients, at this point I simply trust my own experiences as to the concrete value such an environment conveys.) I also believe the importance of Dr. Kondrot's good-natured optimism should not be underestimated.
Your message is a great one to kick off the discussions in Dr. Kondrot's forum. In so many glaucoma support groups I see a lot of discussion that reinforces the negative. The support, while well-intentioned, often comes from people who have no experience of glaucoma except a negative one and, therefore, the newbies are led down the same unhappy path. As I began to document all the factors that influenced my own intraocular pressure, I found that I simply had to avoid many (not all, of course) of the discussions in glaucoma support groups. (To the extent that I pick up the negativity in the worst of those messages, there is a measurable elevation in my intraocular pressure.) My own experience of glaucoma has been very positive - but I have to protect that feeling. I have cultivated a lifestyle and a mental and emotional state that has helped me reduce my eye pressure without additional drugs or surgery. (That state, like all of life, is a delicate balance.) Prolonged exposure to a group of people having mostly negative experiences with glaucoma could easily undo a lot of the gains I've made. Therefore, I am very, very pleased to read this message from another glaucoma patient who is having a positive experience -- and who just naturally felt like writing an uplifting, happy message. (I can see this message comes not from trying to be positive, but from actually having positive experiences, just like I do.)
By the way, I would like to encourage everyone to register instead of posting anonymously. If you register, you can choose to be notified by email when someone responds to your messages. There are many other benefits. A few of these include:
- Being able to edit your messages later (such as to fix a typo or correct something.)
- Being able to easily find all your past messages.
- Establishing relationships with other members. Don't underestimate the power and importance of relationships established online.
- And, of course, the option to be notified by email when someone responds to your messages. This is a huge convenience.
I would like to extend my welcome to everyone as Dr. Kondrot kicks off this new forum.
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